{"id":314,"date":"2025-11-14T07:48:16","date_gmt":"2025-11-14T07:48:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/word\/?p=314"},"modified":"2025-11-14T07:48:16","modified_gmt":"2025-11-14T07:48:16","slug":"i-had-no-intention-of-offending-you-by-asking-for-your-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.aberth.com\/samuelwhitebaker\/i-had-no-intention-of-offending-you-by-asking-for-your-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"I had no intention of offending you by asking for your wife."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Whether this little coup be theatre had so impressed Kamrasi with British female independence that he wished to be quit of his proposed bargain, I cannot say; but with an air of complete astonishment he said, &#8220;Don&#8217;t be angry! I had no intention of offending you by asking for your wife. I will give your a wife, if you want one, and I thought you might have no objection to give me yours; it is my custom to give my visitors pretty wives, and I thought you might exchange. Don&#8217;t make a fuss about it; if you don&#8217;t like it, there&#8217;s an end of it; I will never mention it again.&#8221; This very practical apology I received very sternly, and merely insisted upon starting. He seemed rather confused at having committed himself, and to make amends he called his people and ordered them to carry our loads. His men ordered a number of women, who had assembled out of curiosity, to shoulder the luggage and carry it to the next village, where they would be relieved. I assisted my wife upon her ox, and with a very cold adieu to Kamrasi I turned my back most gladly on M&#8217;rooli.<\/p>\n<p>The country was a vast flat of grass land interspersed with small villages and patches of sweet potatoes. These were very inferior, owing to the want of drainage. For about two miles we continued on the banks of the Kafoor River. The women who carried the luggage were straggling in disorder, and my few men were much scattered in their endeavors to collect them. We approached a considerable village; but just as we were nearing it, out rushed about six hundred men with lances and shields, screaming and yelling like so many demons. For the moment I thought it was an attack, but almost immediately I noticed that women and children were mingled with the men. My men had not taken so cool a view of the excited throng that was now approaching us at full speed, brandishing their spears, and engaging with each other in mock combat. &#8220;There&#8217;s a fight! there&#8217;s a fight!&#8221; my men exclaimed; &#8220;we are attacked! fire at them, Ilawaga.&#8221; However, in a few seconds I persuaded them that it was a mere parade, and that there was no danger.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whether this little coup be theatre had so impressed Kamrasi with British female independence that he wished to be quit of his proposed bargain, I cannot say; but with an air of complete astonishment he said, &#8220;Don&#8217;t be angry! 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